How to Be Friendly at Work Without Getting Taken Advantage Of
Some of us desire everyone to like us at our place of employment. It's a wonderful thing to be personable. However, it can become a problem when it opens us up to being taken advantage of by managers and coworkers. The following are some tips that can help you to be friendly without being taken advantage of:
People at work will only do to you what you allow them to. You can protect yourself from being taken advantage of by setting clear boundaries about what you are willing to do for others. You'll also need to set other boundaries regarding your business relationships, and the subjects you're willing to discuss.
Ask Yourself First
Sometimes coworkers and superiors will throw feelers out just to see how much you're willing to do for them. Your supervisor may ask you to come in on a day when you normally have other things planned. A coworker may ask you to complete half of his or her work as well. Take time to consult with yourself before you answer such a question and commit to doing something for someone else. It's okay to refuse if the task will be a burden to you or force you to upset your life in any way.
Ensure That All Your Work Is Done
Helping coworkers in need is a noble thing to do, and employers look upon such actions favorably. However, you also have responsibilities of your own to take care of. Therefore, it would be wise for you to ensure that all your work is complete before you obligate yourself to partake in someone else's tasks.
Now you know at least three good ways to protect yourself from being taken advantage of for your kind and friendly nature. Put them into practice ensuring that you don't overexert yourself or agree to do things you don't desire to do.